I know this might ruffle some feathers, and that’s exactly why I’m sharing it. Whether you’re a fan of Taylor Swift or not doesn’t matter here. What matters is the lesson behind the reaction people have toward her—and it’s bigger than pop culture.
I’m not a Swiftie myself. I’m just a human, a dad, and an avid football fan. And I can’t help but notice a disturbing pattern: so many people believe that not being a fan of someone somehow gives them the right to tear that person down publicly.
Think about it for a moment. When you mock someone for being happy, for existing confidently in their own space, for cheering on a loved one… your kids are watching. They notice how adults around them judge and belittle others. And that behavior silently teaches them that it’s okay to disrespect others for no reason at all.
Now, consider Taylor Swift—not as a celebrity, but as a person who has made an impact far beyond music. She’s won 324 awards. She’s generated billions in economic activity just through her work. She’s inspired scholarly study in over 20 college courses at institutions like Harvard, Stanford, and UC Berkeley. And quietly, she donates to local food banks in every city she visits.
Beyond her professional accomplishments, Swift has faced unimaginable personal challenges. She was sexually assaulted by a radio DJ, fought him in court, and ultimately won, not for the money but to stand as an example for other women to fight injustice and never stay silent. This is courage, accountability, and moral fortitude—not just fame.
So why does it matter if you judge her at a football game, online, or in passing conversation? Because the values we model—respect, empathy, fairness—are being absorbed by the next generation. Your children, nieces, nephews, and students are learning what behavior is acceptable in society. They’re seeing adults criticize and belittle someone who does good, simply for being visible and happy.
This isn’t about Taylor Swift. It’s about teaching boys to respect women and girls to embrace their space confidently. It’s about being aware of the ripple effects of your words, your mockery, and your judgments. Every moment counts. Every conversation shapes the people watching you, and ultimately, the society we all live in.
It’s time to do better. It’s time to consciously choose empathy, respect, and encouragement. Your actions today could define the moral compass of tomorrow.